3. You avoid contact with the person you like.
“I don’t know why, but when I like someone, I act like I couldn’t care less about him.” “When he walks toward me, I always walk away.” “I like him a lot, but when he is nearby, I pretend that I’m not interested.” Despite the feelings you have toward him, your shyness prevents you from expressing your affection. You may be kicking yourself for letting a great chance get away or you may be psyching yourself up for something better tomorrow. You are not alone. Many women shared similar experiences and vented their frustration about when they let a great opportunity slip away.