5. You are always at his disposal.
“I can never say ‘no’ to his whims.” “It’s a daily occurrence for him to cancel our date at the last minute.” “He likes to gamble, so our dates are always at a casino.” You are madly in love with him, so you accept anything he throws your way. While you may find it normal for him to walk all over you, others see your relationship as unhealthy or even abusive. There is no reason for you to accept all of this nonsense. If you start to question the balance of your relationship, ask a trusted friend to help evaluate the situation.