5. Whether or not she has the family values he hopes to establish.
Sharing the same lifestyle and child-rearing views is key if you want him to consider marrying you. “I consider marrying someone if I can imagine what kind domestic life we would have together,” a guy in his 20s explained. If you want to know what his view of family life is, start by asking questions such as, “If you were to have kids, how many would you want?”