5. I realized that our dates together were no fun at all and got bored.
“I tried to convince myself I was enjoying it, but I couldn’t do it,” said one girl. In some cases, girls don’t realize that spending time with their boyfriends isn’t fun until after the fact. It’s better to avoid starting a relationship before you really know the guy, and only become boyfriend and girlfriend after you’ve gone on a few dates and gotten to know each other in that context.