9 Things a Girl Can Say to Make a Guy Withdraw and Wonder, “Should I Continue to Be in a Relationship with Her?”

6. It’s getting close to the renewal date for his apartment lease, so she says, “Why don’t we live together?”


“Are you plotting to take us from living together to getting married!?” When a girl proposes living together, it can make a man feel wary. If both parties are thinking of sharing the same future, there’s no need to contrive a reason for moving in together. It’s better to just honestly share your feelings – “I want to stay together with you for a long time” – if you want him to think about it seriously.