4. She won’t meet up unless the date was planned beforehand
“If I can’t just call her up and ask her to hang out, it doesn’t really feel like a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship.” Both partners should be able to be a bit impulsive and adventurous in a healthy relationship, especially when it comes to going out on dates. Couples should try meeting up every once in a while without planning anything too specific, just to hang out and enjoy each other’s company.