9 Moments When You Think, “Am I Letting my Boyfriend Push Me Around Too Much…?”

8. When the subject of breaking up is raised, and he looks pleased if you get upset


“He brings it up because he knows I’m going to say, ‘I don’t want to break up,’ and I get so angry.” Some girls get pretty frightened if their boyfriend talks about breaking up. You need to tell him straightforwardly, “Don’t just throw around the subject of breaking up like that.” Hopefully, he will feel a bit of shame and stop playing mind games with you.