8. He has to prepare a surprise to celebrate monthly anniversaries.
“It’s exhausting to have to come up with a new idea each time.” Many guys find it exhausting when they have to prepare a surprise for their girlfriend. Don’t expect your boyfriend to surprise you on your “monthly anniversaries,” but you can tell him you would love him to organize something for your birthday and other special occasions. You can get him motivated by saying, “I’m excited that I get to celebrate X with you.”