9. “You have really matured, haven’t you?”
“It make me feel more positive about the fact that the relationship wasn’t all for nothing. It was just one more learning experience.” Turn your friend’s heartbreak into a learning experience that makes her think, “I’m better for it.” It is reassuring to know that we can continue to mature and improve after we hit road bumps in life. Talk with her about how she is stronger than she was before and discuss what she learned about herself from the relationship.