5 Things to Ask Yourself When You Don’t Know If You Really Love Your Boyfriend

When you start to question your relationship or when your relationship does not feel right, you might ask yourself if you really love your boyfriend. You might be curious how other women ascertain their feelings for their partners. This time, we asked single women in their teens and 20s to share their advice and introduce five things to ask yourself when you don’t know if you really love your boyfriend.

1. When you face hardships or feel sad, who is the first person that comes to mind?

Think about who you would want to see and count on when you are in a crisis situation. “I think about who I would reach out to first if I suddenly get sick and I’m told I only have a few days to live,” a teen commented. Once you know who you truly rely on, you will see where your boyfriend is on your list of priorities.