5. If it’s easy to be himself around her.
“If I’m going to be with her for the long haul, I want to be with someone with whom I feel comfortable with. That’s first and foremost,” a man in his 20s clarifies his criteria. If he’s to engage in a long-term relationship, at the very least, he wants to be comfortable in his own skin when he’s around you. Even when you feel excited at being approached by him, take a deep breath and slow down a bit. Try to create a calm environment by considering how to conduct yourself.