3. He wants to make sure that the relationship will be equal, instead of having one person control the relationship.
Most guys don’t enjoy being in an unbalanced relationship where one partner is too controlling or too dedicated. “It’s not easy to be in a relationship with someone who’s jealous or controlling,” stressed a guy in his 20s. If you know that you tend to overdo things, clarify what your partner’s boundaries are before you go into a relationship.