4. You count the days that you’ve been loveless.
“A couple of months does not sound too long, but when I counted the time in days, I was shocked.” If you are a visual person, figuring out that the number of days since your last date is a three-digit number will certainly wake you up. By the same token, if you record the number of days that you have made improvements to yourself, you should have no problem visualizing a path to help you find a happy relationship.