Is He Cheating? 9 Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend So You Can Get to the Truth

5. Tell him you are coming to visit him without giving him notice, like “I’m coming over now”

“As a joke I said, ‘I’m already at the door.’ I was shocked because he started to panic…” You can play the trump card by hinting that you are coming to search his house. If you are going to try this strategy, prepare yourself for the worst-case scenario. You may not like what you discover and will need a plan for how to deal with it.