2. Let him know you’re making an effort to come see him: “I’m being thrifty and saving money.”
Your boyfriend will feel optimistic when he knows you’re working hard to make your long-distance relationship work. “It costs money to see each other when you’re apart. It’s encouraging to know that she’s making an effort,” a guy in his 20s explained. However, your comments should be subtle. You wouldn’t want to make him feel like he owes you something by overemphasizing your efforts.