9. Commanding your man to “not come yet” during sex
“That’s pressure I don’t want to feel while having sex. It sucks the fun out of it.”
There are men who cannot devote themselves completely to the act of sex when they are told to control their ejaculation. For men, there are some days they can last a long time during sex and some days they can’t. It is best to not demand when he should come during sex, especially the first time.