9. Ask what your partner likes
“It’s best to be direct and ask him what he likes.” Many women agree that it’s best to just ask your partner for his preferences. If you’re feeling shy about asking him, try and ask him after you two have sex so it will be less awkward for you to ask things like, “How was it? Did it feel good?” “How should I do it next time?” If you really feel shy about it, practice asking when you’re alone at home.