9 Things Women Say to Guys during Sex That Hurt Their Feelings

2. “Next time, make me better.”

“So, that means today wasn’t good for you…” It is easy for a beginner to take this in a negative way. Instead, say something like, “Let’s try something different next time!” or “It felt good, but I want to try a new position.” Being more direct and specific will definitely help avoid any misunderstandings.