8 Phrases to Say to Bring a Shy Guy out of His Shell in Bed

8. “Let’s get crazy together.”

“Well, if she insists.” Giving yourselves permission to get a little crazy will give him the opportunity to open up. If it helps, have some wine beforehand so it will be easier for you both to loosen up. Say things like, “Show me a different side of yourself that you haven’t shown anyone before.” This should help him open up more easily.