9 Ways to Turn Your Guy Friend Down For Sex Without Risking Your Friendship

6. Say “If you’re going to date me with the intention of marrying me, then sure.”

“The word ‘marriage’ should be a red light to him.” This phrase works best for men who want a friends-with-benefits relationship. However, if he does have feelings for you and he’s up for marriage, then be careful. It will depend on the friend and make sure you have a good understanding of how he feels about you before bringing out this statement.