9 Memories of Your Boyfriend That Will Suppress the Urge to Cheat

5. Your first trip together, when you felt happy to be with him.

“He was polite to everyone we met, and I saw that he was a really honest and nice guy.” It’s a good idea to reflect on the wonderful qualities about your boyfriend that you became aware of when you first traveled together. It doesn’t necessarily have to be travel-related—think about particular instances when you felt, “I can really depend on him,” and your feelings of doubt and confusion should subside.