6. “Jumping in the sack with him for trivial fun…” keeping you on the side.
“He just thinks of me as an easy lay (bitter laugh).” Some guys will keep their ex around just for convenience. This is not a real relationship: he just wants access to the parts of the relationship that he lusts for. “Hitting him up” for trivial fun can only result in pain if you want anything more, so you should be upfront and say what you think needs to be said.