5. You obviously stop paying attention and only pretend to listen to him
“I panic and think, ‘If she’s spaced out like that, maybe she’s not interested in me anymore?’” If you respond to your boyfriend as though your mind is far away, it could cause him to worry. Even if there’s no meaning behind it, it’s probably safest just to smooth things over somehow, such as by saying, “Sorry, I was just trying to remember if I locked the door.”