3. Just when you think he’s being cold he suddenly gets really affectionate, and his attitude around you is irregular.
“I got upset about how cold he was on the phone, then he sent me some jewelry as a present out of nowhere. I wondered if he was trying to atone for something, and it turned out I was right,” said one girl. If the way he acts around you changes dramatically, there could be something he’s hiding from you behind the scenes. If you’re unsure, try saying, “You’re acting weird lately” and see how he reacts.