Who Do You Think You Are? 9 Patronizing Things Girlfriends Say That Guys Find Irritating

5. You discourage him by saying things that imply he’s not fashionable, like “I’ll help you be stylish”


“It’s like she’s criticizing me. It hurts.” Telling him that you’ll help him change can sound condescending and make him feel bad. Instead, phrase it more like a request: “I would love to see you in this type of outfit.”