9 Softcore BDSM Moves Men Secretly Want to Try

4. Playing doctor and examining her genitals

“It turns me on to see her feeling so shy.” Some men fantasize about giving medical examinations to women. If your man is the submissive type, let him take on the patient roll. Pretend like you’re examining his genitals by poking it a little here and there and this should get him super turned on.