4. He wants to see if you’re the jealous type.
“If she’s too possessive, I’ll get the heck out of there,” a horrified man in his 20s speaks candidly. In this case, he’s testing to see how you react to his innocent flirtation and if he’ll have to deal with bursts of jealous outrage in the future. If he determines that you’re not a control freak, things will work out just fine, so don’t get too worked up about his little test. This should be the time you show your generosity and let things go.