9 Reasons You’ll Want to Ask, “Are You Sure You Have a Winner?”

2. He says his dream is to perform live concerts, even though he can’t play an instrument.


“Every time he’s asked, his ambitions keep changing.” Some boyfriends like to talk big, but they don’t put their money where their mouth is. Maybe you can alert your friend to this by asking, “What effort is he actually making to achieve his goal?”