3. “Let’s talk about this somewhere else, OK?” Start by suggesting a change of venue.
“Walking can calm you down, so that will help him come to his senses,” said one girl. Some couples have successfully continued their relationship by first moving to a place where they can talk comfortably. If you’re somewhere loud or crowded, or a place where he’ll want to keep it short and cut to the chase, you probably won’t get good results. Plus, moving the conversation gives you both time to prepare for a constructive conversation.