3. They don’t gossip about their friends or complain about their jobs
“People are naturally drawn to those who don’t say negative things.” You’ll make a good impression on both guys and girls by steering clear of gossip and not grumbling. Try writing a list of the things you want to stop saying—“It’s so annoying,” or “It’s such a pain”—and reward yourself when you manage to get through the day without saying them. This way you can consciously stop yourself making negative comments.