2. Say “I don’t feel like it today” and be honest and direct with him
“It’s not that she doesn’t like me or anything. She just happens to not be in the mood today, so I don’t feel hurt.” An early warning makes it easier for a man to accept that sex is not going to happen. However, the way you say it will make a great difference. This kind of news can be hurtful to a man with low self–esteem. Use the right approach for the right man and adapt what you say according to their personalities.