4. If you don’t have your own ideas and opinions, this can make you seem less appealing to a guy.
“It makes me think she doesn’t really have anything going on,” said one guy. If you’re always passive around your boyfriend, he may end up getting bored with you. Continually putting your own individuality out there by saying things like “I think that…” or “I like this” will help the two of you better understand each other.