Home Girlfriends Who "Go Too Far With Their Selfishness" 9 Times You Want Affection That Annoy Him 8. When he’s sick Men see you asking for cuddles as selfish when they’re not feeling well. When your boyfriend is sick, your priority should be helping him feel better. Be affectionate in other ways, such as bringing him chicken noodle soup. 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9