9 Phrases You Can Use to Invite Your Boyfriend out on a Date When He Seems Too Obsessed with His Hobbies

8. Mention something that would make him come to his senses, like “Let’s value the time we have together.”

“I was startled!” Taking him by surprise with a comment like that will help to calm him down. Use the approach that “you are starting to feel less interested because he’s never there.” That way you could inspire anxiety in your self-conceited boyfriend.