9 Things Women Say that Can Really Hurt a Man's Pride

2. “It’s cute when you try hard”


“The word ‘cute’ sounds kind of condescending…” Even if it’s meant to be a compliment, “cute” is just one of those contentious words that doesn’t always yield positive results with a guy. If you think something he does is cute, try using a word you know he’ll like, like “cool” or “hot.”