9. Having a clear goal of marriage gives me purpose.
“I used to chase after a vague dream, but now I have a more important goal to achieve.” When presented with the clear goal of marriage, men are often driven by a newfound sense of responsibility. Still, nobody likes to be rushed into an important decision, so don’t use this prospect as an incentive unless it’s something you both want. In the meantime, it is safe to keep the idea to yourself.