“Have you put on weight?” 8 graceful ways to react

6. Tease him back: “I notice you’re getting a little soft around the belly too…”


“I teased him where it hurts, and pointed out he’s got that middle-aged spread too,” says a woman in her thirties. When a man crosses the line, it might be good to let him know how unpleasant it can feel to be body-shamed.