Not all men you end up in bed with will be outgoing. It can be a little tricky to bring a shy guy out of his shell at first, but with the right words, you can make a difference. We surveyed our male readers to bring you nine phrases to say to a shy guy to bring him out of his shell in bed.
1. “I can guide you.”
“I can just enjoy myself since the pressure has been lifted.” By lifting the pressure off his shoulders, you can let him indulge himself and enjoy sex. The more he associates sex with feeling good, the more he will be willing to come out of his shell and explore more.