5. You are everyone’s friend.
If you’re a social butterfly and a likable person, you probably have a reputation for being a good friend to everyone. That’s wonderful, except that he’ll discount you from being his girlfriend. It’s because he can’t feel any exclusivity. He wants to feel that he is special to you. If you have been popular among many men, but can’t seem to land in an intimate relationship, you may fall under this category. If so, try creating an exclusive situation for him. You may want to show him the private side of you that you don’t show in public. He’ll feel that you opened up to him, and only to him.