5 Things to Say When You Don’t Feel Like Going on a Date Because of Poor Timing

2. “It seems like you’re busy. Let’s keep the idea open for another time.”

You can also turn him down by being considerate of his busy schedule. Some guys think that being considered “busy” is a compliment. You should be able to say no to his invitation without making him feel bad. This is a safe way to turn down a date, because you don’t have to mention that you just don’t feel like going.