Home Being Possessive / Your Boyfriend Is Being Possessive 8 Things You Say That Make Your Boyfriend Feel Trapped 7. “From now on, I’ll choose your clothes for you when you go shopping.” Guys who are passive might appreciate this, but if you comment too much on your boyfriend’s outfit, he might think, “I’m not your dress up doll!” 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8