9 Things Men Don't Want to Hear When They Bump into Ex-Girlfriends

7. “You’ve gotten older” will have him wanting to say, “Right back at ya.”


“You’ve aged the same number of years I have,” said one guy. Men and women are the same on this score… We all age, and no one likes having it pointed out. If you say it less directly, for example, “You’re looking so distinguished,” you might not offend him.