3. She won’t say what she really wants
“If she just goes along with whatever I say, it becomes harder to for me say what I want.” Some men feel uneasy when their girlfriends hold back too much and only try to accommodate them. It is understandable that a girl wouldn’t want her new boyfriend to dislike her for being bossy or aggressive, but some guys really take pride in fulfilling their girlfriends’ wishes, even if they may be slightly selfish. She should be more confident and willing to state her own opinions and desires.