5 Ironclad Defenses Against an Adulterous Co-Worker

2. Indicate that you are perfectly happy being alone.

“I pretend that I have no interest in being in a relationship,” said a woman in her late teens who came up with a simple but effective plan. By pretending to have better things in life than to be in a relationship, he’ll get discouraged and won’t approach you. If he becomes relentless in pursuing you, be curt and shut down all possibilities.