3. A girl asked him for advice, and he thinks it’s his responsibility to take care of her.
Some guys don’t know how to turn their back on a woman who relies on them. “She started crying and said I was the only one who she could talk to. I thought I needed to protect her,” commented a guy in his 20s. If your boyfriend is always texting someone or sneaks around to talk on the phone at night, you should suspect that there’s someone else who is trying to get his attention.