6. When I began thinking about marriage and my criteria began to change
“She is fun to be with, but that’s not enough to support and inspire each other in the future.” It is common for men to want different qualities in their spouses than in their girlfriends. Perhaps your boyfriend is starting to recognize the qualities he seeks in a spouse. It’s wise to discuss what you both want out of a marriage with him and discover what he needs and wants in a spouse. It will help both of you fill the gaps.