5 Honest Truths About Guys Who Say They Are Not Interested in Getting a Girlfriend at the Moment

3. He has no self-confidence, because his love has always been one-sided.

He could be feeling discouraged if he’s never had his feelings reciprocated. “I know I’m a hopeless case,” a teen wrote. If your crush complains about not being popular with women, hint to him that you are interested. You can say something like, “Trust me, I’m sure some girls are checking you out.”