9 Controlling Behaviors That Make Your Boyfriend Lose Interest

2. Making him report on what he’s up to by sending you messages every 30 minutes


“When I think about having to do that all the time from now on, it drives me up the wall.” Dealing with a worried, insecure girl can seem like a burden for some guys. Show some consideration for him by saying something like, “If you’re too tired, you don’t have to message me.” That way he’ll want to take the initiative and get in touch.