7. When he’s not available to see you on obvious “couples” occasions, like Valentine’s Day and New Year’s Eve
“I’m sure he’s seeing a girl he likes better. I’ve obviously lost the competition (cry).” When he’s busy on days like Valentine’s Day and New Year’s Eve, you have to wonder if he’s dating other women. You might want to let him go because, by choosing not to spend the day with you, he’s showing you that he regards you as a spare.