8 Phrases to Say to Reassure a Man Who’s Breaking Out of a Dry Spell

6. “Don’t worry and relax.”


“I’ll be able to relax and focus better.” By relaxing he can turn his full attention to sex and perform at his best. Try whispering in his ear, things like, “There’s no one around to interrupt us, so let’s take the time to enjoy ourselves”: this will allow him to relax and focus. He might even surprise you with his moves.